Divine Timing -- And Nothing Else

Have you ever picked up a book to finish reading days, months, even years later? Perhaps you finished a project after having halted its progress some time back? The mildly awakened individual will notice perfect timing--as if no delays ever occured, and the completion was exactly right. Translate that to relationships. Once we see Diving Timing behind our woes, we begin to recognize the individuals who triggered us were actually part of a Holy Plan for our benefit. We can see them with a new perspective. We can forgive. Discover the Holy Plan intended just for you. Let's talk...LLCartin--The Worthless Wife

Should We Avoid Criticism from Narcissistic Spouses?

Be nothing. Do nothing. Say nothing. BUT...in order to break away from a "narc" we must NOT fear their criticism. A "narc" uses our multiple fears to gaslight us. Let's talk. LL Cartin -- The Worthless Wife

Living in Hell -- RHOM

While watching Bravo's RHOM last night, my heartstrings were tugged hearing Lisa H. cry out over her marital circumstances. The spouse who makes the most money usually has the most power. In the case of some women, they can feel doomed by any number of things. Although my problems are somewhat different, I relate to her tragedy, but to have it on display for all the public to see, it has to be deeply painful for her. Let's talk... LL Cartin The Worthless Wife

RHOM and BETRAYAL

Even our much-loved reality stars suffer from marital betrayal. Are they showing us the best way to cope with it? Smith Wigglesworth: "Divine life is full of Divine appointment and equipping, and one cannot be filled with the Power of G-d WITHOUT A MANIFESTATION." If we choose to respond rather than react to our circumstances, there are unexpected benefits. Let's talk. LL Cartin The Worthless Wife

The Worthless Wife--Living a Permanent Lie

I am resurrecting a former blog that was set in motion several years ago upon the publication of my first metaphysical book. Presently surrounded by other women who share equal and even greater marital offences as mine, I feel the need to cast a net of support for each other. As a metaphysical teacher and also trained counselor and spiritual leader, I hope to be helpful to emotionally and/or physically abused women, as well as myself, dealing with these matters. Please feel free to anonymously vent your personal circumstance on this blog. I will try my best to respond in a way from which we all might benefit. L L Cartin

Dear Daphne

I am a metaphysical teacher and counselor who works from my Victorian home.  I operate SCHOOL FOR DREAMS in the book, Daphne's Web. I am quite willing and able to assist you in finding your own path to understanding just how powerful you are.  Please use this blog as a forum for dialogue by asking your questions or stating your thoughts in the comment area.

This will be an ongoing new feature of the blog and together, we will design a way to make it effective.  A question someone asks may end up having an answer we all need to hear.

Your feedback is always appreciated.

Love, Daphne Betel
Teacher, dancer and chocolate maker extraordinaire

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MIRACLES

The holidays can bring joy as well as sadness. Are there miracles in those devastating tornados last week that bring a bit of light to the darkness? Always search for the LIGHT behind our circumstances.