Your honesty is a super beginning for change. Thank you for that.
The next step is to examine why you might not be ready to change. Are you still trying to have the upper hand in a situation? From personal experience, that never works.
When we choose peace instead of belief, we become determined to find more peace. We let go of anger and hostility, even though the same circumstances show up daily. In time, everything changes.
Sooner or later, it is the one thing we all eventually have to do.
Life is actually hard for all people until we gain control over our thinking.
The reason it appears more difficult for some than for others, is because it was set up that way by our thoughts.
Some of the greatest people in history who have inspired us the most have been people with great challenges and hardships in their life. Eventually, they turned their backs on being unhappy and searched for joy in their struggle.
Ever minute of every day offers each of us a new opportunity to see things differently---and that will make all the difference.
ok can't stop seeing struggle. what changes it?
ReplyDeleteHi,
DeleteYour honesty is a super beginning for change. Thank you for that.
The next step is to examine why you might not be ready to change. Are you still trying to have the upper hand in a situation? From personal experience, that never works.
When we choose peace instead of belief, we become determined to find more peace. We let go of anger and hostility, even though the same circumstances show up daily. In time, everything changes.
Sooner or later, it is the one thing we all eventually have to do.
~D~
Life can be very hard for some people. You can't candy coat it. :-(
ReplyDeleteHi,
DeleteLife is actually hard for all people until we gain control over our thinking.
The reason it appears more difficult for some than for others, is because it was set up that way by our thoughts.
Some of the greatest people in history who have inspired us the most have been people with great challenges and hardships in their life. Eventually, they turned their backs on being unhappy and searched for joy in their struggle.
Ever minute of every day offers each of us a new opportunity to see things differently---and that will make all the difference.
~D~
PS...I just noticed you used the word, can't.
DeleteTry replacing can't with won't---then let it ring in your head a few times. This was my first lesson in getting out of a difficult life situation.
~D~